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Intimacy in Relationships? Consider Working With A Couples Therapist

 

couples therapist: Intimacy is the lifeblood of a nourishing, deep relationship. It's not just the physical closeness but the emotional bond that ties two people together. Yet, many relationships suffer from an unexplained distance – a gap where intimacy should be. As a coach and counsellor, I've often found that this gap isn't always caused by what's visible on the surface. Sometimes, the roots lie in beliefs and perceptions that we aren't even aware of.


£90 couples therapy £60 individuals


Here are the first five things you need to understand about intimacy barriers:

  1. It May Not Be You: It's easy to blame ourselves when the connection fades. However, the issue often lies in unexpressed expectations and personal beliefs that both partners carry.
  2. His Belief System: A man's upbringing, past experiences, and societal influences can shape his view on intimacy, often subconsciously. Understanding these beliefs is the first step towards change.
  3. Awareness is Key: Many men come to my office with tears in their eyes, bewildered by the departure of their partners. They didn't realise that the absence of intimacy was a problem, indicating a lack of awareness about their partner's emotional needs.
  4. Communication Can Uncover Hidden Resentment: Resentment can build up silently, stemming from unresolved issues or unmet needs. It's crucial to open lines of communication to identify and address these feelings.
  5. Change is a Two-Way Street: Recognising and working on personal barriers to intimacy is a journey both partners should embark on together. It's about mutual understanding and a shared commitment to growth.


Intimacy is complex, woven with threads of vulnerability, trust, and communication. A man's perception of his partner – and vice versa – can be clouded by ingrained beliefs that neither may be consciously aware of. These perceptions can create a barrier to intimacy that, if left unaddressed, may lead to the disintegration of the relationship.


In my practice, I've witnessed the profound impact that awareness and understanding of one's belief system can have. Men and women alike are often surprised to learn how much their own subconscious thoughts have influenced their behaviour. By bringing these thoughts to light, couples can start to work through the issues that are holding them back from experiencing the closeness they desire.


Intimacy is not just about being physically close; it's about feeling emotionally connected. When that connection is missing, it's not uncommon for one or both partners to feel unloved, unwanted, or unattractive. It's a deep-seated issue that affects not just the relationship but each individual's self-esteem and mental health.


If you're struggling with intimacy in your relationship, know that it's not a lost cause. Understanding each other's belief systems and communication patterns is a critical step towards bridging the gap. As a counsellor who specialises in these delicate dynamics, I offer not just a listening ear but a path forward.


You don't have to navigate this alone. Reach out for a free consultation, and let's explore how we can reopen the channels of intimacy in your relationship.



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Penny For Your Thoughts Counselling 


1 Bridge Chambers, The Strand, Barnstaple, EX31 1HB


Tele: 07580350168


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