07580350168 Areas Ilfracombe Barnstaple Bideford
Couples, Marriage and Relationship Counselling in Barnstaple
Support for couples facing communication breakdown, separation, or uncertainty.
Available in person in or online.
07580350168 Areas Ilfracombe Barnstaple Bideford
Support for couples facing communication breakdown, separation, or uncertainty.
Available in person in or online.
For couples who want to strengthen their connection, calm conflict, and understand each other more deeply, relationship counselling offers a safe and structured space for you and your partner.
Using Gottman-informed approaches, we explore patterns of:
For couples who want to strengthen their connection, calm conflict, and understand each other more deeply, relationship counselling offers a safe and structured space for you and your partner.
Using Gottman-informed approaches, we explore patterns of:
Whether you’re navigating a difficult chapter, recovering from a rupture, or simply wanting to reconnect and grow together, we take things gently at your pace, creating space for understanding, compassion, and new ways of relating.
When one partner is unsure about staying in the relationship and the other wants to keep trying, discernment counselling offers a calm, structured space to pause and reflect before making big decisions.
Together we explore what’s been happening beneath the surface, understand each partner’s perspective, and look at the patterns that have
When one partner is unsure about staying in the relationship and the other wants to keep trying, discernment counselling offers a calm, structured space to pause and reflect before making big decisions.
Together we explore what’s been happening beneath the surface, understand each partner’s perspective, and look at the patterns that have brought you to this point.
The aim isn’t always to fix the relationship in these sessions but to help you gain clarity about the best next step; whether that’s rebuilding the relationship, or separating respectfully with honesty and confidence.
The end of a relationship can leave you feeling disoriented, depleted, or unsure of who you are without it.
Whether the separation was sudden or long-anticipated, the emotional impact can ripple through your confidence, sense of self, and future plans.
This work offers a calm, supportive space to make sense of what’s happened, process the
The end of a relationship can leave you feeling disoriented, depleted, or unsure of who you are without it.
Whether the separation was sudden or long-anticipated, the emotional impact can ripple through your confidence, sense of self, and future plans.
This work offers a calm, supportive space to make sense of what’s happened, process the loss, and begin rebuilding with clarity and intention.
While counselling can’t take away the pain of a breakup, it can help you understand your experience, regain emotional steadiness, and shape a future that feels meaningful and self-directed.
I’m a qualified therapist and a registered member of the BACP, with years of experience providing counselling services to individuals and couples navigating some of the most difficult chapters of their lives.
My approach is warm, practical, and grounded. I help you understand what’s happening beneath the surface, recognise the patterns that leave you feeling stuck, and begin to reclaim the steadiness and connection you’ve been longing for.
Whether you are struggling to communicate, facing separation or recovering from a relationship breakdown. Because the right relationship support can bring clarity and calm faster than you think.
I work with people who need a place to slow down, talk things through, make sense of what’s happening, and feel more like themselves again. My style is active, present, and engaged; I don’t sit back and simply nod. I’m here with you. I help you untangle the truth, understand the dynamics underneath, and find clearer, more hopeful ways forward, whether you come as an individual or as a couple seeking support.

It was the one place we could talk uninterrupted by the kids or family. The balance of our opinions and views between us both was handled well by Penny, she managed to help us resolve our problems.
We are feeling confident for the future.
I would recommend Penny."
Here are some of the issues I regularly support people with:
Relationship Support
Sessions also available online.
This is an informal conversation where you can share what’s been happening, ask questions, and get a feel for how I work.
It also helps us explore:
There’s no pressure and no obligation; it’s simply about finding the right fit.
After we talk, and if you decide you'd like to proceed, we’ll decide together which path is most appropriate:
Even if you decide this isn't quite right for you right now, you can click here to see my free resources.
Whether you continue with couples therapy or choose discernment work, our sessions will be calm, steady, and structured so you both feel heard; with guidance to help you navigate the emotional and practical parts of your relationship.
Session Length & Fees
£95 — daytime couples therapy after 6.30 pm £115
1 hour and fifteen minutes
£105– daytime discernment counselling, after 6.30 pm £120
The first session is usually two hours
Ready to Begin?
You can take your first step by booking your consultation below.
Tom
Please reach me at info@pennyforyourthoughtscounselling.co.uk if you cannot find an answer to your question.
Couples counselling helps partners improve communication, rebuild trust, dismantle learned behaviours and strengthen emotional connection in a safe, structured space.
Common concerns include communication problems, separation, intimacy issues, emotional infidelity, relationship uncertainty, anxiety, burnout, and low self-esteem.
Couples Counselling Sessions
• £95 daytime
• £115 after 6:30 pm
• Duration: 1 hour and 15 minutes
Discernment Counselling Sessions
• £105 daytime
• £120 after 6:30 pm
• First session usually 2 hours
Relationship Recovery After a Breakup
Yes. I offer a free 20-minute consultation to discuss your situation and explore the best next steps.
I’m a qualified therapist and a registered member of the BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy).
I have years of experience providing couples counselling and relationship therapy in Barnstaple and online, supporting people through communication breakdown, separation, and relationship uncertainty.
My approach is warm, practical, and actively engaged, helping clients understand deeper patterns and move towards healthier relationships.
You can book your free 20-minute consultation by completing the online form on the website or by contacting:
📞 07580 350168
1 Bridge Chambers, The Strand, Barnstaple, Devon, England, United Kingdom
Mon | 09:00 – 21:30 | |
Tue | 07:30 – 22:00 | |
Wed | 08:00 – 22:00 | |
Thu | 08:00 – 22:00 | |
Fri | 08:00 – 22:00 | |
Sat | 08:00 – 22:00 | |
Sun | 08:00 – 22:00 |

Disclaimer: PLEASE READ CAREFULLY BEFORE USING THIS SITE: This site is for information only. I do not give medical advice or diagnose for conditions. If you feel you have a medical condition, it is best to consult your doctor. Always seek the advice of your medical professional before making any changes to your treatment. I am a counsellor, and personal growth mentor and the material on this website represents my understanding and opinions nothing more.
Expectations of therapy: Every person responds in their unique way to counselling, I do my best to align each person to the style of therapy which best suits that person. I cannot guarantee counselling will solve your issues. I help you to help yourself by helping you discover a deeper awareness of yourself and what is troubling you helping you to empower yourself to make the changes to get you to a better way of being.
I promise that I will help you. However, to get results you would need to be fully committed to the change you want. Your results are in your hands. There may be homework, I might ask you to do, reading, listening to audio recordings or some written work, it is up to you to decide to engage with the tasks, you will not be judged if you do not do them, they are to enhance any work we do during counselling
Penny For Your Thoughts Counselling
1 Bridge Chambers, The Strand, Barnstaple, EX31 1HB
Tele: 07580350168
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